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Love Link 2 ~ Remember the Love
The two of you fell in love for a reason: to companion one another on your journeys to connect with your Spirit selves. In that, you are one another’s Beloved.
If you find yourself beginning to feel distant from one another, take time to “remember the Love.” Recall your first meeting, your initial attraction, the thrill you felt in the early stages of your relationship. Reflect upon the unique gifts of your relationship and the great goodness it has brought into your lives. Offer thanks for its awakening presence.
Check in with yourself also—regularly—to determine how you are treating your partner. Are you treating him or her like your Beloved? Are you nurturing, supportive, a good listener? Are you feeling generous toward him or her? Compassionate?
Your ego self will naturally want to focus in on what’s wrong in your relationship, not what’s right. It will want to spotlight your partner’s irritating qualities and what is lacking. This is what a human ego does best: it tries to separate the two of you, making your partner seem less desirable, even wrong for you. It will take conscious effort on your part to rise above such thinking and remember why you have come together, to grow, to move beyond the ego connection and experience Perfect Love. Accept the fact that your ego will try to manipulate you to believe your relationship is less than perfect. Connect with your Spirit self and your partner’s Spirit self as often as you can. Remember who you are to one another.
Excerpted from from Perfect Love: How to Find Yours and Make It Last Forever by Brad and Jan Lundy. Heart to Heart Press. 2006. All Rights Reserved.
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